See things as they are, not as the one who wronged you wants.
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 4.11
See things as they are, not as the one who wronged you wants.
Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 4.11
The source
"See things as they are, not as the one who wronged you wants." Marcus Aurelius said it in Meditations 4.11. Translated by George Long, 1862.
"Do not have such an opinion of things as he has who does thee wrong, or such as he wishes thee to have, but look at them as they are in truth"George Long, 1862, Meditations 4.11.
Who said it
Marcus Aurelius (121–180 AD). Roman emperor who wrote private notes to himself on a military campaign. We know them as the Meditations.
Questions
- Who said "See things as they are, not as the one who wronged you wants."?
- Marcus Aurelius (121–180 AD). Source: Meditations 4.11.
- What is the original wording?
- Do not have such an opinion of things as he has who does thee wrong, or such as he wishes thee to have, but look at them as they are in truth (George Long, 1862). Translated by George Long, 1862.
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